What do good books and pretty women have in common? They both happen to be values that seem to captivate my mind. Both of these values happen to be obsessions that synchronize very well with the psyche of a male and fundamental desires.
Allow me to expand upon these two patterns of thinking. Without any proper balance in the center of the male psyche, behavior can become out of whack and perhaps even destructive. It is for this reason that I wanted to bring up the subjects of my own personal focus:
Obsession #1: Read Great Books
I’ll begin by saying that one thing that has always excited me is the prospect of gaining new knowledge. One of the best ways I like to entertain myself and build my personal potential is by reading GREAT BOOKS. Some people might question the idea of reading, but I would call these people ignorant.
I believe reading is one of the best ways to exercise the mind and explore new waves of information. I honestly can’t handle the ignorant people who would rather waste away their lives playing video games to the point where they never see the light of day. Growing up as a kid I played nintendo as well and I had some great times playing good ol’ Mario Kart and other fun filled games. However I quickly reached a point where I was confronted by my older sibling and she told me that video games were nothing but a waste of time.
At that point I had an epiphany and ever since I transitioned from gamer to a reader. I have to mention that television in general is such as big life waster. I don’t hold much respect for those who watch useless TV programming to the point of no end. I understand that human beings get bored and they like to be entertained by screens, however is the time spent in front of a TV really a quality part of your day?
If you ask me I enjoy entertainment and especially if it involves good quality films and documentaries. However when you do it to the point where you’re the definition of an American couch potato, well your not benefiting yourself or society.
I understand that their are people out there who feel they already supplement themselves with enough education through school or universities, so they would rather spend their free time in other ways, but I believe their is too much potential in the world to allow personal time to go to waste. If you want to be well-rounded and not a dull-faced person who has little knowledge besides a diploma, you better read up!
Your education has to expand beyond the classroom confines and the best way to get ahead is by reading GREAT BOOKS. We live a midst a special time frame. Although there are many distractions battling their way into our daily lives. Each and everyone has to make a commitment to learning, no matter what form of learning or where the learning takes place. Reading books or conducting self-education is an area that every person can utilize to make the world a better place. Reading depends upon your focus and your interest level, but once you find the right material you’ll know it when you find it.
Pursue your interests with a vengeance. If you go to school, I’ve found it to be the most effective to focus on your textbooks. If you have no interest in your classes then its best to learn what you want to learn.
If you give into the commitment of reading GREAT BOOKS you chose to proceed at your own pace. This can be a hard step for people who lack dedication, so in order to get into reading you have to straighten out your priorities.
Some people might ask, don’t you ever get tired of reading all day everyday? My response would have to be, first I don’t really read all day everyday. As much as I’d love to do so, my brain can’t handle monotonous activities for prolonged periods of time. It’s for this reason that I feel the need to filter in other activities. Changing up the schedule with doses of weight lifting, running, meditation, and martial arts are some great ways to keep the mind revived.
When you start reading GREAT BOOKS, it won’t be long before, reading one great book leads to another and suddenly a new obsession begins to take form. No matter what area of interest you hold, there is surely an avenue of open roads to explore. Book categories such as business, philosophy, health and wellness, spirituality, and fictional stories all serve the purpose of expanding the mind to a new level of impalpable potential.
Reading great books enables you to reach new peaks, as well as refresh your knowledge base. If you choose carefully by renewing your knowledge base with new content and useful information, it won’t be long before you notice some obvious changes. Take advantage of libraries. Libraries are one of the greatest weapons that any intellectual can add to their arsenal!
Start a book club or create a goodreads account. The more that you read the more educated you will become. We live in a gadget obsessed world, don’t let your mind turn into paste.
Obsession #2 Pretty Women
Without the proper balance in the center of the male psyche, behavior can be out of whack or perhaps even destructive. However I believe when the proper female arises and shows her feminine prowess it can really bring out the true inner forces of a man and his creative powers.
In my opinion the colors of creative forces are all sexually driven in nature. It’s from the primitive instincts that every person derives their strength, desire, and motivation for all aspirations. As MD James H. Austin is quoted in the book Frequency, “Emotions are not “bad”. At the roots of our emotions are primal energies which can be put to fruitful use. Indeed… the energy of enlightenment arises from the very same natural origins as those which give rise to our everyday passions and emotions.”
Love is all the fuel one needs in order to start creative empowerment. When you experience the love of meeting a beautiful person it stirs a movement in the mind that makes you feel like you can carry the weight of the world on your shoulders.
The feminine tone in contrast with the masculine identity can lead to the production of a man’s finest works of creative construction. According to research done by Napoleon Hill,
“Scientific research has disclosed these significant facts:
- The men of greatest achievement are men with highly developed sex natures; men who have learned the art of sex transmutation.
- The men who have accumulated great fortunes and achieved outstanding recognition in literature, art, industry, architecture, and professionals, were motivated by the influence of a woman.”
As a result of stimulation many people will pursue various heights in order to delight their soul or seek simple appreciation of other people. It’s like a game of chess, but rather more realistically the hunting grounds of primitive instincts where the art of creativity feeds off the hunger of love. You can dive more deeply into the study of sexual transmutation if you read Napoleon Hill’s book Think and Grow Rich.
Some people take large risks for the love and affection of a beautiful woman, while others are afraid to approach the contents of what love may provide. All I can say is that the emotional balance that is restored when in the company of a beautiful woman is like no other state of mind.
The state of mind is that of bliss. It’s like being on a drug minus the substance. Perhaps it’s the dopamine, perhaps it’s the serotonin. Either way the chemistry of bliss and attraction is a magical buildup.
Their is no doubt that the brain changes when you have a brain in love.
So why be obsessed with pretty women? Well quite frankly they fill my cup with just with their presence alone.
While I state my focus from my point of view, this focus is targeted towards the male psyche rather than a females stance.
I can’t speak for women, but I’m sure they define obsessions in their own way.
Well there you have it, the obsessions of a lone wolf. I do my work with independent spirit, and I roll with a propensity to overcome obstacles no matter the time frame.
Overtime I’ve figured it’s best to find your influences and create from that point forward.
Whether you’re seeking improvement or motivation in your life, mastering your focus and balancing your direction in life can greatly boost your productivity.
Focus on what you want and what you need to do. You’ll feel much more fulfilled for the rest of your life if you follow the compass of your creative pulse. From experience I can say positive feelings ultimately gravitate positive people towards you.
Stay focused and work for your goals each and everyday. Every time you step in the direction of improvement, you’ll be one step closer to turning desires into reality.
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“Think and Grow Rich: Chapter 11. The Mystery of Sex Transmutation (The Tenth Step toward Riches).” Think and Grow Rich: Chapter 11. The Mystery of Sex Transmutation (The Tenth Step toward Riches). Evinity Publishing INC, n.d. Web. 07 May 2014.